Why do Dating Problems happen?

Why do Dating Problems happen?

Why do Dating Problems happen?

Most dating problems happen because of compatibility issues. When two people are not right for each other, there is no way that they can have a smooth sailing relationship. Compatibility can be difficult if one person in the relationship is needier than the other individual. If one person needs space and the other is clingy then it can make it difficult for relationship to survive. One other reason for dating problems could be lack of communication between couples. When the couples stop communicating, misunderstandings and relationship boredom can happen.  As Henry Winkler rightly said, “Assumptions are the termites of relationships.”  So couples should make it a point to have every day conversations with each other.

Communication is the most important aspect in a dating relationship. Dating problems can occur when communication skills are not up to par. One should be comfortable with the guy/girl  they are dating. It is very important that the couples express their feelings toward each other. They should also be clear about what you want or expect from the relationship.  However, constantly talking isn’t necessarily communicating. Take the time out to actually listen to your partner.  It is also important to think before you speak. Many times relationship also breaks because of words left unspoken. This happened with friends of mine too. They liked each other but never expressed their feelings.  Years later, they came to know that their liking for each other was mutual. But there is nothing that can be done now as they are stuck up with their own arranged marriage partners.  But I am sure life would have been better if they were married to each other. This can increase trust between couples which is the basis of every good relationship.  when proper Communication is established, it is easy to know if a couple is compatible and have the same likes and dislikes. As the saying goes, “Birds of a feather flock together”. When couples have similar likes and morals, it is easy to form a friendly relationship.  It is difficult to form a good relationship if the couples have different goals for the relationship. Therefore, It is very important for couples to communicate and come to an agreement about what they need from the relationship to be satisfied and avoid disagreements about things.

Being comfortable and being able to communicate will show you how compatible a couple can be. If these two things are lacking, it is better to consider being just friends.

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